Love verses Independence....

Here are some quotes from some good insightful poets.
Rainer Maria Rilke in his book about, Love and Other Difficulties, states: "I hold this to be the highest task of a bond between two people: that each should stand guard over the solitude of the other."
Kahlil Gibran states that, "Love one another but make not a bond of love: let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls".
This is a big challenge in our lives, we have a great longing for intimacy and independence.  One part, like a magnet pulls towards intimacy and then the other part, that can fracture a heart, pulls us in the other direction towards independence.  This is a difficult act, to guard the solitude of the other person in our life as if it was at the verge of life and death.  We crave, die over and over to this part of life until we can cast off and can still be attached on some level.  Shall we all practice being kites?

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